Feeling discouraged? Some tips

February 28, 2008 at 5:32 pm | In Advertising | 1 Comment
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Well, after reading a post about someone saying that they were feeling discouraged or like they were not going to succeed with their current business. I think we have all been there or at least know someone who has been here. I. have. been. there.

One of the things people say that I strongly disagree with is; “If you have a passion for the products, you will succeed!” I disagree totally. You need more than passion for the products and business. Passion may make you get up and go to work,talk to strangers about your products or approach businesses, but you need more than that. You have to learn how to “sell” products, what to say, how to approach people and what works. You really have to get into the potential customer’s mind. I know it sounds corny and all but it is true.

Like I have said time and time again “Working from home takes work!”

We are building businesses. This takes years for most people. So, why do we, home based bsuiness owners, expect it to take just a few months or weeks? Pateince is something we all need to aquire.

Think about this:

How many times have you walked into a store and bought nothing? Plenty of times (or at least I hope so, or you have some kind of pack rat problem…..I mean that in the kindest way :) )

Okay so, if 100 people have shopped in a store, actually bought something, how many people in total do you think came and didn’t buy anything? Probably 200 or even 300 dare I say 400…. Do you see where I am going with this?

I have heard people say in the first year of running a business you will spend more than you make. I agree. You will also do more work than you expected, with what looks like little profit.

Back to the store…..

Okay so 100 shoppers doesn’t seem like a whole lot of business does it? But it is. If 400 people entered that store, looked around and then left, those 400 people will probably tell someone else they know about the store, reaching 400 more people. What if this was in a 1 day period? That store reached 800 people in 1 day. That is not bad, if you ask me.

Point is, it is not about how many people buy your products or sign up with you, it is about establishing a presence. Letting people know you exist and have what they are looking for, is what it is all about in the first year.

Here are some tips to get your website or store to reach your target market:

Your store/website name:

If you sell candles :) , if would be wise to have a name such as “Blah Blah Candles” or “Candles for Blah Blah”. That way customers will know they are going to a site that sells candles, talks about candles or at least can direct them to candle information. This way you will know that 90% of the customers who came to your site and didn’t buy anything, didn’t leave because they didn’t know what you offered or what your site was about.

Be clear about what you offer on the home page:

If you offer candles, be clear about that on the homepage. Make sure you are not dragging the customer through the whole website, before you finally tell he customer what you offer. The homepage is not for your biography or company story. It should be all about what you sell and what variations of the products you offer and any specials you have.

Contact information:

If you don’t want a lot of emails that say “I am interested in your products!”. Don’t put your email all over the website, just put it on your contact page. Offer a place on your website for customers to ask for a catalog or sample. This way, they ask for what they want and move on. On my website, which is still under construction, I have my email,  phone number and address j/k no address. That’s all customers need. Make sure you put a link to it on your Homepage in the navigation bar.

What may also help is to ask for opinions on your website. Join forums, such as WAHM and ask the ladies on there to look at your website and critique it.

Don’t get down in the dumps, just change your approach, stay open minded. Big stores such as Wal-Mart try many different marketing strategies, so we have to as well.

This ain’t easy, but you can do it, if you want!

Thanks for reading,

Jarmelia Ladson

http://www.mbgourmetcandles.com

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Do you have a schedule? You are porbably going to need one!

February 26, 2008 at 12:33 pm | In How do you do it?, Motivation, Starting Out | 2 Comments
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A question that seems to be asked a lot to WAHMs  (work at home moms) is, “How do you do it”. Meaning, how do you work, clean, feed your family and still get to bed at a decent hour. Well, it isn’t easy running a business no matter if your at home or outside of the home. But, I think working from home is a tad bit more challenging, mentally. You can’t exactly leave your work at work, it kind of follows you all day!

The answers to this question have all been about making a schedule. I don’t currently have a schedule, I will confess, but I do see that I need one. It is so easy to get sidetracked and forget about the emails, the phone calls or desk cleaning you need to do.

Here are some questions you can ask yourself to help out with the day to day stress and aid in making a schedule:

Do I like working in the morning, afternoon or night?

This will give you the foundation for your work schedule. It will allow you to plan all other activities around this time.

How many hours do I really need to work a day?

Figure out how long it really will take you to email, call, make products, fill orders or whatever else. I think the average range is 4-6 hours to do all of that. But to make calls and answer emails, that should really only take about 2 hours or so. Also, see if you can arrange certain duties for certain days, like ship orders on Mondays and Wednesdays and so on.

Can this time be broken up into sections?

If you have small children 4 straight hours at the computer may be near impossible. So, try and see if you can email in the morning, make phone calls during nap time, and make samples or fill orders in the evening.  Give each about 1-2 hours, if possible.

I find that breaking up a work day, helps me to feel like I am in control of my schedule. I think it is especially important to have a cut off time. I know it is hard, when you are a night owl, but, it would help a lot to have a definite Start Time and Finish Time much like an open and close time like regular businesses. I am  sure your customers will understand that you can’t always be available. What business do you know of that is always available? I don’t know of many…..

Make sure you are not running yourself ragged by always having to make deadlines by the skin of your teeth or constantly have to work late nights. It is not healthy or beneficial long term to be stressed out this way.

Make time to eat meals!

I know this may sound like a, DUH! to some of you, but it is really easy to grab a bag of chips, throw the children a sandwich and keep working but, that isn’t healthy. Insert lunch breaks into your schedule to eat with your children and leave the computer. Go sit at he kitchen table and take your time. I think 45 mins to an hour is sufficient time to prepare a lunch and just relax a bit.

I have a bad habit of waking up and then jumping on the computer to check emails! This has really taken a toll on the things I eat for breakfast. If you do this as well, try waking up earlier to give yourself time to make a wholesome breakfast and prepare your mind for the day. Let’s say you want to start work at 9:00 AM, well then at least give yourself an hour start by waking up a 8:00 AM. This is what we would do if we worked outside the home and I know it helped me get prepared for the day.

Even though we work from home, we have to treat our businesses like real jobs. Use your imagination and pretend you are getting ready for work, get dressed and fix your hair, please brush your teeth and welcome the day. Taking time throughout the day to organize thoughts and relax, helps to clear the mind and makes the day go a bit slower.

Hope these tips help you! I will keep you updated on my working habits , stay tuned!

Thanks for reading,

Jarmelia Ladson

Small things to do that can get your product into the right hands

February 25, 2008 at 2:45 pm | In Advertising, How do you do it? | Leave a Comment
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I know I am supposed to be cleaning…..this is way more important.

I know alot of us have trouble getting our products noticed and it seems as if all we do is spend money with few results. We have all been there at one time or another. But in the past few weeks I have learned some inexpensive tips that helped me get around.

Donate:

If you hear about an auction or raffle going on in your town or over the web. Donate a product to it. There was a lady who asked for a donation for a basket for her daughters fundraiser, I immediately replied. I am also going to send her a Thank You votive, because she didn’t have to even ask us WAHMs or wannabe WAHMs to donate. She could have bought everything from the store.

Sponsor:

Someone else asked for sponsors for a Virtual Party she was having, I donated a basket. Well, come to find out, the person who won my basket loves candles! I am also sending the virtual party coordinator a Thank You. When I told her I wanted to send her something, what did she say? She loves candles, but has never tried melts (tarts), she was excited!

Now don’t think I am just buying these candles and products all willy nilly, I am using the left over stock that is just sitting around on my desk, causing all kinds of clutter.

Thank You gifts

I also just recently got an eye exam, I got contacts and have to go back to Sams (my 2nd grocery store love) and pick up my prescription. When I go back I plan to give both the eye doctor (I am not spelling out the technical term, that would be embarrassing) and his trusty sidekick assistant, a votive as a, Thanks. The eye doctor is a man, but I saw a wedding ring so he seems to be married, I will  assume he’s married to a woman who loves candles.

If they throw my votive away, oh well. It was just sitting around anyway, but I hope it unlocks their inner candle burner and makes them run to my website with all their friends and buy candles galore! Oh, that is very possible….

I plan to give the management office of my apartment complex and gift basket with  a simmer pot and some melts for them to use. The office is full of women and women go in and out all day so I know, this will be a hit. It won’t be quite a “Thank You” because they really could do better maintenance wise and such, but that is beyond the point.

All this giving should cost me about $20, which is in my budget, shucks it is my budget! I will keep you updated on how well it goes! Who exactly the ”you” are that I will be updating is debatable, but “you” are none the less important to me.

Thanks for reading,

Jarmelia Ladson

http://www.mbgourmetcandles.com

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Get organized woman!

February 24, 2008 at 10:44 pm | In How do you do it?, Motivation | Leave a Comment
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I have to get organized before I lose my sanity! I don’t know how some people work all day and keep their desk/office space clean! I would take a picture of my desk for a before and after, but I will not embarass myself like that!

I not only need to clean my desk, but also my inbox. I need to organize my emails and put them all in one spot. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth while I do that…..

I won’t technically say my office space looks like this : A pure mess

But, I do want it to look like this: Inspiration 

I need shelves, a new desk, more storage tubs, binders, baskets, and little holder thingys for trinkets. I will be getting all these things from Wal-Mart, I don’t shop elsewhere unless, unless nothing, I just don’t shop anywhere except Wal-Mart! I don’t see how people can not love this store, groceries and furniture in the same place, come on man.

But anyways, I am on a mission, as corny as it sounds, to clean up my office space and inbox. Please do not wait on me to clean my inbox and come back and hoop and hooray because you will waiting a sweet forever on that one. So much for the mission, huh?

This website made me laugh! They even tell how to organize your organizing! I know their desks would pass the white glove test. But, if you come near my desk with a white glove, white pair of pants or white shirt you will be walking away with candle wax particles all over you!  Not to mention that there isn’t a spot available on my desk to wipe your finger…….

I have so much to do this week, I just can’t afford to be unorganized. I have emails to send, people to call and packages to ship! That’s just what I have to do tomorrow!

Please if you can find it in your hearts, clean a space on your desk for me or at least help me clean a space on mine.

I need to get ready for bed, but I know once I go to sleep I will have no choice but to wake up and clean my desk that looks like it was hit by hurricane Katrina’s sister .

Oh the things I confess on the world wide web! My grandmother would catch a migraine at the site of my desk and her blood pressure would sky rocket. So I am trying to spare her of these things about her grandbaby…..if she only knew about the unclean skeletons in my closet.

You all have a nice night dreaming of raindrops and chocolate or whatever, while I have nightmares about having to clean my desk….

Jarmelia Ladson

http://www.mbgourmetcandles.com

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I was on the radio! Blog talk radio!

February 19, 2008 at 6:28 pm | In What is this blog about? | Leave a Comment

I will admit I was nervous, but I think I did well, I have to listen to it in a minute.

Here is the link to the show: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mommysgetaway 

Please listen!

Jarmelia Ladson

http://www.mbgourmetcandles.com

Build a team or sell the products?

February 17, 2008 at 8:39 pm | In Just a little rant | Leave a Comment
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I am a bit upset to say the least, it seems like more people are focusing on building teams and sponsoring team members than on selling the actual products. With the company I am in there are many ways to build your business, retailing, fundraising or residual income(sponsoring). But it seems like the focus is on sponsoring.

I think the actual products themselves are being put on the back burner. I am not just talking about with my company but many others as well. Seems to be a race to get the most sign ups and team members, where in my opinion it should be who exposed our wonderful products to more people. Isn’t that why the company was formed? I don’t want anyone to think I am bitter or anything like that, but I am tired of people saying “If you really want to make some money start building a team.”

I think alot people stop working from home due to sponsors who don’t care, don’t know what they are doing or told them a bunch of half truths about the company.  Being a sponsor is not something people should take lightly or think of as a quick buck.

Seems like you have to know what the ins and outs of MLM and network marketing in order to be in direct sales now a days, which shouldn’t be.

And to be honest that is not what I signed up for, I didn’t sign up to train people in MLM. Tell them about my business and teach them how to retail, fundraise and create residual income,  is what I wanted to do. But, to sign up people and teach them how to sign up people an on and on, I didn’t sign up for that.

I love candles and wanted to sell them, plain and simple. I found out I could make money teaching other people how to sell candles, a added bonus. But, I think for many people that is not what they signed up with their companies to do. It seems as if they just signed up to build teams and make money, no passion at all for the product or retailing it. So then it is no longer  Direct Sales it is  MLM! Shouldn’t Direct Selling be the focus of a Direct Sales company?

I hope this whole MLM or network marketing stuff is just a fad and will be over really soon, because I actually like selling the products I sell and don’t want to focus entirely on sponsoring. I actually find joy in making gift baskets, sachets and selling candles. But, if you ask me to talk about the busines opportunity, don’t expect me to get all MLM and such, I am going to talk about how simple it is to SELL the products and earn a living doing that!

There are lots of other companies out there that focus specifically on MLM, so why join a direct sales company if your major is MLM? I just don’t get it, you obviously don’t have a passion for the products or care anything about them.

I thought “Earn Residual Income” meant tell others how to sell these products and make money doing that. Not, sign up more people and teach those people how to sign up more people, but use the products to draw them in and then forget about the products.

I feel like eveything in the company should revolve around the products and selling them, everything else is a bonus in my opinion. I see why some companies have quotas…….

*rant over*

Jarmelia Ladson

Just some random business topics…

February 16, 2008 at 8:45 pm | In Advertising | Leave a Comment
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Well I just recently purchased some items to help me advertise my business more and in different ways. Here are my latest purchases:

120 organza bags from Your Organza Bag for under $10 not including shipping.

I also purchased some cello bags for Cello in a Box, I am very impressed with them, the bags and the shipping.

I placed these orders on the 12th and received them on the 16th, that is some greast shipping!

With the organza bags, I plan to make scented sachets with them to sell or use for fillers. With the cello bags, I got the flip flop print, perfect for South Carolina. I am going to be making my own fillers to hand out around town.

The fillers will be for advertising businesses and products to other moms.

So, I wil be busy for the next few days getting all these mopacks and fillers together.

When I am done with them I will be taking pictures!

*that was a whole post about nothing, I will do better tomorrow*

Thanks for reading!

Jarmelia Ladson

http://www.mbgourmetcandles.com

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How bad do you want a sale?

February 14, 2008 at 3:38 am | In How do you do it?, Starting Out | Leave a Comment
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Okay so since I have been in business, I have seen it all when it comes to catching a sale. I have seen some positive ways to catch a sale and some negative ways. I think the gray area in it all is, how far should you go to get a sale.

Here are some things I have learned.

If someone emails or calls you interested in your products but doesn’t answer your emails or phone calls in return, move on. Maybe after a month or so, send them a postcard when you “drizzle” on some other prospects who kind of dropped off the face of the earth. I would send out postcards to all the prospects who asked for information or got in contact with me but nothing came of it, every 3 months or 2-3 times a year. This is something new, I am trying since I don’t like to bother people, but sometimes people do get busy and need reminding about your business or product.

You will always get people who will want to order and get you all excited and giddy thinking about the sale, but they never order or answer your emails or phone calls. This is to be expected. Why do people do this? Lack of funds, lack of interest, or maybe they just changed their mind about ordering from you. Whatever the case, don’t worry about it, you will get lots of these “hopefuls”.

If someone mentions, they want to join a business that is similar to yours, like if you are on a forum/message board and someone says they are looking to sell (insert your product here), send them some information. I show emphasis on some because sometimes we get so excited we talk too much or oversell. If you have a website, send them the link along with a few facts about your company/product and a way to contact you. Let people do their own research to find out if your business or product is right for them. That way if they do join you and find out it isn’t what they thought, they only have themselves to blame due to lack of research.

Sending someone a full page of information about what you offer looks desperate in my opinion, especially since most of the time it is copy and pasted straight from a website. So why not just send the link to the page and few sentences about what is on the page? It is so much easier and takes about 2 mins. to do. That way if they fizzle off, its okay. Only give your all for serious prospects, those that email you back, call you back and actually communicate!

Don’t give away to many things for free or low cost. People are always looking for a sale and want to save a few bucks. Yes, offering a few bucks off of a product may get you the sale, but you also lose money. We are in business to make a profit so obviously everyone can’t get 50% off all orders or you would be broke. I only offer discounts when it will benefit me, such as, bring more traffic to my site, bring more sales or as a Thank You gift.

I see this so much with people in the candle business, someone will say “I want to try such and such scent, I love candles and can’t wait to buy some from you!” and then the distributor will go and send them a whole votive and never hear from them again. Some distributors even hand out votives at stores. Now, you can get sales from this, but it doesn’t always work.

Think of it this way, if you send them a votive, what incentive do they then have to buy one? Yes, they may burn the votive and enjoy it, but that doesn’t mean they will buy another one from you. People try things all the time, that’s why people like Sam’s Club, free samples. But the difference is, they give you a small sample, a little bait. If you like the small sample, which is barely enough to satisfy your craving, then you will get the whole bag often times. This is the same idea, we should have when we give out samples. I give out “scent samples”, this is a crushed votive in a 1×1 or 1×2 inch zip lock baggie.  This is just enough for them to smell the scent and decide if they want to order it. It costs me close to nothing to do and I get my product in their hands.

Remember this, if you always have to beg people to buy your products or always feel burnt out due to no one buying from you, then try a different approach. Re-evaluate your products, make sure they are products people need or want. Make sure the pricing is competitive and not over priced. Check out the quality, compare your product to other similar products. Constantly check to make sure you are up to date with what is going on around you. Example, if you sell business cards, make sure you have fresh designs, great graphics to give people a reason to choose you over someone else or even consider you. If everything is up to par, then try a new advertising strategy. There is more then one way to skin a cat or chicken!

Told you working from home takes actual work! :)

Jarmelia Ladson

Look what I found!

February 13, 2008 at 10:58 pm | In Advertising, How do you do it?, leads | Leave a Comment
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So, yesterday I made a trip to Earth Fare to pick up some hair care products and a few other things. I was at the checkout when I saw they had this bulletin board, where people can put up community events, leave parent magazines and family things. So, I picked up 4 of the magazines and all of them have a section for advertising. I will be the one of the few, if not the only, candle business and home-based business.  When I go back I am going to leave some catalogs and brochures for the mommies to look at and pick up.

I see this section every-time I go there but, I never had the sense to look and see what was over there. Duh! Right? Please check your Earth Fare or Whole Food store for any magazines and such as this is usually the market we look to advertise with.

Next, I found a link to a great Internet Marketer’s , (well actually I am on her team, but she is still great) Jackie Ulmer and she wrote about goal setting. I think this post is a great post to get some of us off our butts and into the post office mailing off samples and contacting leads.

Here is a snippet:

1. Make a decision and then commit to yourself to spend ten minutes a day for the next 7 days setting goals. Grab a spiral notebook (don’t use anything fancy as it will just slow you down and force you into perfectionism!) Think of all areas of your life where you would like to set some goals – ie: personal development; business; family; health and fitness; etc.

2. As you work through this process each day, ask yourself – What would my goals be if time and money were not a consideration? What would my goals be if I knew I could not/would not fail?

3. Don’t hold back! Have fun and be creative and spontaneous. Each day, read the previous days goals and then move ahead with new or adjusted goals. Forget about anything but the fun of doing this exercise.

How do you feel as you set these goals? Do you feel inspired to take action in each area? Do you feel empowered, knowing what steps you can take daily to see the job through?

How will your life be different if you pursue this exercise for the next year, and take inspired action?

Click hereto read the rest of her post. I am so glad I am on her team with Mia Bella, she is truly great example to follow! Read around her blog and check out her website, she explains everything so simply!

Jarmelia Ladson

http://www.mbgourmetcandles.com

Does working from home fit your lifestyle?

February 11, 2008 at 10:11 pm | In Starting Out | Leave a Comment
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I was on my BFF forum, yesterday- WAHM and someone was “venting” about how working from home was not all it’s cracked up to be. I agree with her 300% she is totally correct in my book.

Now, the person “venting” had a work at home job. Meaning she worked for a company and she gets paid every week or two.  Now, her reason for venting was that her schedule wasn’t as flexible as she thought it would be, she wasn’t getting paid as much as she thought she would be, and she wasn’t able to enjoy more time with her family as she had hoped. I think this scenario is similar to that of lots of other WAHMs as well.

I ain’t all its cracked up to be people!

No matter if it is a Home based business or work from home job, you will not be your own boss. With a home-based business, the customers are going to be the boss, you won’t tell them that, but they are. With a work at home job, you will be “hired” to work for a company.

I also have a work from home job, with this company. I actually like it most of the time but there are some pitfalls.

Here’s is what you can expect 9 times out of 10:

  • You will have to pick your hours from the hours they have available, so your picking your schedule from the hours available which may be just night hours or morning hours.
  • You may have a few or more hours to choose from depending on the amount of “help” the company needs
  • When it is slow, meaning you are getting (0) calls,if you are a contractor, you will get paid $0 dollars, if you are an employee you will get paid your hourly rate which may be minimum wage.

For me, I decided to work from home due to not having to work outside the home or at all. I don’t have to work to pay any bills, it is more of a supplemental income and something to keep me busy thoughout the day. I also don’t have any children or pets to give my attention to. My husband works in the afternoon and into the night. So, looking at my lifestyle you can see that working weird hours or no hours would be fine for me. Also, I don’t need to make much money so this option fits my lifestyle.

Now, if I had children, I would of course need to work when they are napping, at school or doing something to keep themselves quiet. So my availability would be limited. So, if the company only has 2 hours available between 9 AM and 5 PM, that’s what I have to work with.

Also, if I needed to make a set amount of money every 2 weeks to cover my bills, I would have 2 options, work all through the day and night or stalk the schedule for hours to show up and catch them really quickly.

So, as you can see working from home with a work at home job is not for every lifestyle. You have to make sure you check out the company, talk to the people who work there via forums and message boards and just do your research.

Companies differ in policies, pay and schedule availablity so you have to ask questions, that’s the only way you will get answers!

Jarmelia Ladson

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